IS IT FINALLY TIME?
Time to MAKE A DECISION and either leave your unhappy marriage (or relationship), or figure out how to make it work...really, deeply, gorgeously WORK?
To put an end to the torment and actually go for the life and love you so deeply desire?
We KNOW you've been on the fence for a long time, agonizing over this decision.
We also know the pros and cons lists...the surprise at how desolately lonely one can feel while in a relationship...the painful, drawn out feeling of hoping things will get better, even as you see they are not...as you are working on yourself and seeing the gap between you getting wider, sadder.
Years are passing...and you do NOT want to look back in another year - or five, or ten! - and be in this same frustrating, painful situation. Just thinking about that makes you shudder.
Unfortunately (or fortunately, for you!), we understand this scenario all too well. Because we have both been there. We felt the crippling fear that kept us in a fog of indecision, for waaayyy too long...so long it scared us into action.
What we have learned and experienced since then has been nothing short of mind-blowing.
But first, does any of this sound familiar?
- There is a thought loop in your head, running endlessly, and getting nowhere: you question your sanity and logic at times because there is no clarity (otherwise you would already have made a decision once and for all!)
- You've tried everything - couples therapy, anyone? - but the same patterns keep playing out...
- You hoped that just YOU changing would be enough...after all, somewhere in there is a good man, the man you fell in love with. Besides, so many women would LOVE to be in a relationship and can't find anyone...so why can't you just be happy?
- Well, for one because you are either having no sex, or only sex and nothing else: there is no connection anymore, no warmth, no joy.
- Maybe you delay coming home as much as possible. You stay out longer, and when you get home you distract or numb yourself with food, wine, TV...whatever it takes just as long as you don't have to talk to him
- You find yourself having fantasies about that guy at work...or perhaps you are sexting someone, or even having an affair out of desperation for connection, that alive feeling, and hope of finding the real you again
- The guilt and pain are causing you to get angry and snippy at the smallest of things, and you KNOW this is not your best self but you feel so resentful and justified that it's hard to see straight sometimes, let alone have the patience to be loving and kind
- You know it's not working, and you are not acting on that knowing, which feels awful and incongruent. Can you really live the rest of your life like this?
- You remind yourself to be grateful for what you have (ummm, happy people don't need to remind themselves to be grateful...they FEEL it, joyously, every day!)
- You try to make a decision but the voices swimming in your head overwhelm your sense of reason...who are you to break up a family just because you want more? Hasn't he been there for you when you needed him? He's 'such a good guy!' What about the children? How could you be so selfish? (Whose voices and expectations are those, anyway...?)
- You are afraid of being alone...maybe of having no resources...perhaps even of dying alone with a couple of cats a your only friends (do we all have this fear?)
This is no way to live.
We know from painful experience that every day that passes while you're in this situation is eroding your soul...and your self esteem.
We also understand that it's the very depth of your pain and fear that keeps you paralyzed...instead of catalyzed into action.
Our gentle invitation: Since this relationship isn't the loving, passionate, sexy, fun, ALL IN relationship you so deeply desire, isn't it time you allow yourself to move forward?
Here is some food for thought as you ponder that:
Remember the little girl you once were, who hoped (assumed) her grown up self would be living in a fairy tale?
Why didn't that happen?
Is such a blissfully happy life really possible?
The short answer to that last question is a resounding YES, and we know it's time for some good news!
And there is SO MUCH good news here. There is REAL magic here, and it's WAY better than in the fairy tales!
There IS a path out of the darkness, and we can light the way, and help you navigate the unknowns you have been afraid of. We will show you how to transcend patterns that have been running your life for years, making room for an absolute flood of love, joy, and passion.
No more depletion. Never again.
Here is a video excerpt you may enjoy where we talk about what it's like to LIVE in this magic, after healing and releasing all the pain that built up in our lives and relationships:
After watching this, you will know if you are truly ready to receive this level of joy, and if we are the right guides to help you learn how.
(If you are not quite ready, it's OK...in all honesty, it took us each years to build up the special combination of courage, self-love, resentment and had-enough-ness to finally make the call.)
If you ARE ready, WE CAN HELP. We are masters at this. It's what we do, and what we love.
FOREWARNING:
This is a program that insists upon deeper conversations. You cannot resolve this issue and get the clarity you seek from within the mentality and patterns that created it and maintains it. This work with us will expand your awareness and take you OUT of the patterns so you can see them for what they really are.
OUR COMMITMENT TO YOU
We will deeply support you in coming to crystal clarity about what is best for you. From this highest truth, you can then choose to either:
End the relationship in full authenticity and love, so you can go after the life and relationship of your dreams
- OR -
Turn back towards your partner fully, in deepest alignment and feminine energy, and invite him to rekindle and create with you the relationship you desire
No more confusion. No more resentment.
FULL embodiment of the magnificent woman you are, whatever you decide.
One more conversation with your girlfriends over wine is NOT going to solve this, and you've waited long enough. Now it's time for you to decide...your joyous, ecstatic future self is waiting!
Read on to discover some of the additional, built-in benefits you will enjoy:
- Your choices going forward will come from your deepest knowing and self-love, so that you can live your truth fully and unapologetically
- You will dissolve and release all the anger and resentment you know isn't healthy for you
- As part of this process, you will discover and fan the flames of your natural feminine energy, and learn where you have been off-balance in your masculine and feminine energies (We dive deeply into this in our Ascended Woman: Feminine Rising program - think Goddess!)
- Owning your true feminine essence and strength will change the game for you; whichever path you choose, you will be wide open to receiving and enjoying a loving, supportive, exciting and delicious partnership. You will never again have to settle in love.
If you end the relationship:
- You will learn how to separate yourself from the opinions, fears and judgment of those around you who might not support your decision. We will help you nurture a sense of calm certainty as you navigate the process.
- You will be supported in holding a space of love for your partner and any children involved in the process. The self-love and alignment you will feel is part of a new paradigm for divorcing couples, and as parents you will vastly enhance the love and security the children feel as they witness you becoming healthier and happier.
- We will address re-entering the dating pool, helping you make a fresh start as your full aligned self, so you do not bring any of your old patterns with you. You will know your worth, so you are not tempted to settle for the next man that comes along; instead you can attract the glorious, fulfilling relationship you desire, with a partner who is a much better match!
We are holding a spot for you...in the realm of joyous, deeply satisfied goddesses. It's time to make your choice.
Please note: We take on limited clients so we can truly, deeply serve each of them. Get started now by clicking the link above to book a call with us, and see if there is a good fit. We can't wait to talk to you!
